Few things disturbed me more in my pre-parenting life than the “I’ve Been There, You Haven’t Done That” crowd. They’re the type that are loaded with parenting tips and advice, generally all the things they did to perfection to shape their wunder-kid into a, well, wunder-kid. They’re also the types who will say your life has had virtually no value before you brought a child into the world, and who swear you have no understanding for what tired, what love, and what hard work mean before you add parent to your list of titles. So, with that in mind, today I won’t offer a list of To Dos when it comes to being a parent of a baby/toddler. Instead, today’s advice is…don’t do what I did!